You Got: The Pretender
Score Range: 12–24

You’ve been playing it safe...
But something’s starting to itch.
What’s Really Going On...
You’ve been doing what most people are taught to do... keeping things tidy, polite, and professional.
Avoiding drama. Staying in line.
But deep down? You’re starting to notice the cracks.
You’ve probably:
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Kept your head down when someone made a dodgy comment
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Felt awkward about ‘difference’ but didn’t know what to say
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Equated inclusion with being nice to everyone
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Thought staying neutral meant you weren’t part of the problem
People don’t always remember what you said.
But they feel when you say nothing.
What this tells us:
This isn’t about blame or getting it right from day one.
It’s about noticing... and you’re doing that!
You took the quiz. You’re still here.
That odd feeling in your tummy?
That nagging in the back of your mind?
However it shows up for you... that’s your brain doing its thing.
That’s growth.
That’s the nudge to stop pretending.
Honestly?
We chuffing love that for you.
You’ve probably spent years being steered to colour inside the lines... not because you’re dull, but because school, work, and the old rulebook made it feel like the only way to succeed.
Smile through discomfort.
Avoid the awkward.
But here’s the thing reyt... those lines were drawn decades ago for a version of life that doesn’t fit most of us now.
Especially if your brain, identity, or background doesn’t play by the ‘norms’.
Neuroinclusion isn’t about smashing it up for drama.
It’s about asking who’s missing, and why.

What it actually means:
You don’t need a badge. You don’t need permission.
You just need to give a toss and keep going.
Start noticing your habits. Your reactions. Your silences.
Ask better questions. Expect messy answers.
This isn’t about getting it perfect... it’s about starting somewhere honest.
And this?
This is you levelling up.

Next Steps:
Join the Stop Pretending Challenge
A free 3-day challenge for people done with pretending and ready to show up without the pressure, panic or people-pleasing.
Join The ChallengeGo Big or Go Home and Jump into The IMHub
Tools, humans and proper backup for doing the work with your actual brain, not some corporate robot version of you.
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